49 Up Page #7
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You just want to protect them
from everything
that's harmful to them.
When you look back at yourself
at seven, can we see you now?
I can't really recognize myself.
and a little bit sad,
and I think I'm
quite sort of surprised
to be sort of contented
and reasonably happy.
Do you have a dream?
Well, I'd have probably liked to
have played international cricket,
but I just wasn't good enough.
You know, one's dreams go,
and the day-to-day living
of ordinary life and
family life takes over.
I think we just sort of
Live without our dreams.
(laughter)
I don't like the big
boys hitting us
and the prefects
sending us out -
Out for nothing.
When he was seven,
Paul was in care in a
children's home in London.
(Michael) Were you happy at
the children's home in England?
I didn't mind that, really, 'cause
we didn't know what was going on
'cause we were a bit young.
Well, as far as I know,
Well, they separated
originally, I think.
They eventually got divorced.
I went to the boarding school
for one year,
and then we emigrated
to Australia.
Paul settled with his
father and stepmother
in a suburb of Melbourne.
(Michael) What mark
has it left on you -
The fact that you were brought
up within a bad marriage?
(Paul) The only thing I can say that
I think might have come from that
is just my lack of confidence
and being able to show my
feelings, really, I suppose.
Would you like to
get married, Paul?
No.
Tell me why not.
I don't like, um...
Say you had a wife.
They - they - say you had to
eat what they cooked you,
and say - I don't like greens.
Well, I don't.
Oh, no, I prefer
to be alone, really.
I can't say I don't want to get
married, 'cause I think I do,
but I want to be happily
married, you know,
and therefore I want
to make sure, I think.
(Michael) What is it that you fell
in love with? What is it about him?
His helplessness, I suppose.
It was the motherly instinct in me
to pick him up and cuddle him.
And he's also very good looking, I
think, but he doesn't agree with me.
In the summer he's got this
cute little bum in shorts.
I mean, I can tell
quite a few stories here,
but the one that really irritates me
the most is when we have an argument
he says, "That's it. Leave me."
And I say, "Fine. All right.
I will one day."
We had our 20th wedding anniversary
just before Christmas.
Which is the life sentence.
Yeah. Everyone reckons that we
should be out of jail by now.
To a certain extent
we started thinking,
"Well, do we really
know each other now?"
Because you just
get in the humdrum
of going to work,
coming back home...
Running kids here and...
Kids here and there.
I don't think you mean to, but you probably
stop thinking about each other a lot.
I find it hard to express
emotion most of the time,
although I'm getting on top
of that more now, you know.
Just the simple things,
to say to, sort of,
"Susan, I love you."
something like that.
I can tell you about it,
but I really haven't been able
to say it freely to Sue, you know.
It's a bit hard to talk about.
I did end up having
to get a bit of help,
and it wasn't directly due
to our relationship.
It started at work,
unfortunately,
which brought my self-esteem down,
which tended to affect
everything else.
And I was just very fortunate
that I saw a local doctor
and with her help, I started coming
back to normal thinking, probably.
I mean, I was feeling a little bit
worried about the relationship,
because I felt like I hadn't
progressed. I was going backwards.
And, I mean, I still believe that.
I was thinking that why would Susan
want to be with someone as -
Sounds funny -
but as boring as me,
'cause there was nothing there.
I mean, what do I do?
How do I say it?
It was a shock
that he got that low
and that he doubted
the relationship,
because one thing
that Paul's never doubted
his love for me.
You know, it's always been there,
and I've never doubted it, either.
Did the physical side
of your marriage suffer?
I think it did.
I think it did, really.
...For a little while.
We promised ourselves
when we first got married
that we'd never stop,
you know, touching
or being affectionate
towards each other.
And in front of the children,
we've always been -
And even now with the children,
we still embrace, a lot, both
Katy and Robert. I mean...
Katy will sometimes say,
"Mother, stop it."
I was gonna be a policeman, but I
thought how hard it would be to join in.
I just haven't made up my mind yet.
I was gonna be a phys ed teacher,
but one of the teachers told me
that you had to get
up into university.
At 21, Paul was a junior partner
in a firm of bricklayers.
By 28, he'd gone out on
his own as a subcontractor.
I think when I started
work for myself,
things were looking good for me,
'cause I was out of school,
something I was very
enthusiastic about.
And I was chasing
the dangling carrot
but never got there,
'cause, I mean, really,
I'm a worker and not -
not a businessman.
By the time he was 42,
making signs for
a plastics company.
What's the future for you
at work, do you think?
Well, I mean, the job's still there.
I've had talks with them about whether
they were ushering me out the door,
and they say they're not.
Not that I'm that old,
but it's a bit of worry
about getting a full-time job
with my skill levels.
Sue had been a hairdresser
for most of her working life,
but at 49, she has a new career
as an occupational therapist
in a retirement home.
(Sue) You might be in your
40's and getting older,
but you still have a lot to add
and you can learn to go
in a different direction.
I call this my sea change.
Do you have ambitions?
Not really now.
I've been in this job ten years
and never asked for a pay rise.
That's just what
I've always been like.
Has it affected home life at all?
(Sue) It has affected
a little bit,
because I'm not there at home
as much as I used to be
for when Paul got home.
It can be - and I'm sure
I'm not the only one -
It can be quite startling. You get home
and you think, "There's no one here."
When I've been here for
30 years to be home to.
It's really different.
By the time they were 28,
Paul and Sue had two children -
Katy and Robert.
Katy did well at school
and got a place at university
to study archaeology.
They're photos of the dig
in Cyprus that I went on.
And we were digging
in bronze age tombs
that are around the village.
the family to go to university.
Was it a struggle for you?
It was a bit, because I
had to do it all by myself.
I had nobody to really help me,
'cause mum and dad
couldn't help me
with my essays or things like that.
What does university mean?
and I'm not having a go at Rob,
but I've got views for Robert,
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