Simon Amstell: Do Nothing Page #5
- Year:
- 2010
- 60 min
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religious conflict or anything, you know...
It's a nightmare. It's a nightmare.
You can't imagine.
You can't imagine, Dublin.
That's their belief.
And, you know, we mustn't judge them
because they live in Essex,
where there's not much to do,
and so there's a lot more time for racism.
I live in London now.
God, if I had the time, but...
Every day, I'm walking through Oxford Street,
I see people from ethnic minorities
and think, "I should do something,"
but I'm so busy, you know.
And I... You know, it's unfair of me
to just be on this stage attacking them.
They have their perspective.
They were just trying
They saw it... From their perspective,
it was a bad example to their children
'cause they could end up marrying gentiles,
then their children's children
wouldn't be Jewish,
then they wouldn't be able to go
to a Jewish school,
and then where would they learn paranoia?
So...
And nobody's ever caused a drama
about this in the family.
We just sort of try to keep the peace
and we try not to say anything about it,
because it's genuinely believed in this
family that when my mum got divorced,
which was quite a drama, it was the direct
reason for my grandpa becoming diabetic.
So no one's allowed to say anything,
so they say these sort of
awful, offensive things,
and I'm sat there going, "My God, if this
was being televised, people would boo you."
And then, near the end of the dinner,
because I've been on a few courses
to try and make my life happier,
I say to these members of my family, in as
sort of sweet and polite a way as possible,
"Isn't it a shame that my brother
couldn't bring his girlfriend tonight?
"It's sort of a shame.
Isn't it sort of a shame?"
And they get quite defensive, of course,
and say, "Well, why isn't she here?
"We thought she would be here.
Why isn't she here?"
And I say, "Oh, isn't it... I don't know.
"Isn't it because of that time
that you said, 'She can't be here'?"
I say... I ask, "Just explain to me
why is the belief more important
"than the feelings of a human being?"
And it's so sad, 'cause she's a brunette.
She could pass.
And then my brother comes over
and just starts swearing at them,
and it becomes a bit intense, and I say,
"Oh, no, it's all right. Calm down.
"I've been on a course, and..."
And my grandpa... This is just the point
where the cake is supposed to come.
We should be singing happy birthday,
and now my grandpa is crying,
partly because of the drama that I've created,
but partly 'cause he can't eat the cake.
And, uh... Yeah, it's a tricky business.
The whole thing's a tricky business.
It is then suggested that we all go back
to my mum's house and resolve this.
And I feel very awkward
about the whole thing
because we don't have drama in this family,
and now I've created one,
and I've got to resolve it.
We've got to have this whole debate
about who's right and who's wrong.
And I used to... As a child, I was quite into
debate and opinions,
and now I just feel like debate and politics
is the opposite of truth,
the opposite of beauty, the opposite of joy.
When I was younger I went to see
the Vanessa Feltz talk show being filmed.
There's nothing we can do.
It happened. It happened.
The subject up for debate that day was,
"Should I murder my husband?"
At the beginning of the show,
that the best opinion of today
will win a bottle of champagne.
So there's everything to play for.
Should she or shouldn't she
murder her husband?
Twenty minutes go by and people say
some very interesting things,
stand up and say,
"I think you shouldn't murder your husband
'cause you could go to prison."
And I won a bottle of champagne.
And whether it's a lowbrow,
stupid, daytime-TV-show debate like that,
political debate,
it's the same inane, nonsensical,
cyclical, boring topics,
and we go round and round in circles
debating the same things
over and over again.
Somehow we take out logic and
prior knowledge from our collective minds.
And I think it's quite similar
to what happened to me
when I did magic mushrooms
a few years ago.
Somehow, I was able to say to my friend,
on mushrooms -
and I think it's this sort of conversation
that we're all constantly having
that stops us from progressing at the speed
isn't it odd how, when you say to someone,
"Oh, do you want to meet up
for some dinner next Thursday?",
the dinner is a lie.
"It'd be nice to meet up with you.
I haven't seen you for a while."
Why do we have to have this dinner cover?
How do you know how hungry
you're going to be on Thursday?
Why can't we just say,
"It'd be nice to meet up with you"?
where you could just meet,
the meeting place, an indoor place,
where you walk in and you sit down,
there's nothing, just chairs,
and you sit down and you look at each other
and you meet, and it's truthful,
it's authentic, it's beautiful.
And then I thought,
after about half an hour there
you could get a bit hungry.
And I invented the restaurant.
So I didn't want to have this debate
with my family,
who was right and who was wrong.
Very difficult thing.
We have to continue to debate things
because there is no truth,
there's only perspective.
And their perspective was
that it was a terrible misunderstanding,
and the one time they did meet her,
she hadn't said hello to them.
And I had to explain that she was
the shy, new guest coming into this family.
We are hosting her.
We have to say hello first.
That's how it works.
I don't know if I only know that
from presenting TV shows
where you start with,
"Hello, and welcome to the show."
You don't stare at the audience.
I had to explain it to them
like they were children.
I said, "Why can't we learn from Lumiere,
"the candlestick holder
from Beauty and the Beast?"
"Who sang Be Our Guest, Be Our Guest,
not Is She a Jew?"
But this is unfair, because I realised
in everything that I was saying
what was underneath my words
was essentially,
"Why can't you just be less judgemental,
and more like me?"
Which is judgemental.
And arrogant, to try and change
somebody else's perspective
just so that the world
can seem better for you.
It's important that we have
these contrasts in life.
Nothing ever got created
It's from the contrasts in life
that anything happens.
I realised in the end that all I could do,
I couldn't change them,
all I could was change
my perspective on them,
and then move on with my life.
All you can really do in your life
is change yourself, and that's hard enough.
I really wanted to change myself
a lot last year,
because I felt I wasn't getting enough sex.
And that's a fun thing to do,
it's a shame not to have more of it.
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